Dear Sal,
As we are approaching the Thanksgiving Day holiday, once again, we are faced with the dilemma of getting so many together ( we have a large family) without any confrontations. We are all hopeful of having a peaceful and loving holiday. However, we have many strong personalities who are very opinionated and are very willing to speak their mind. It would be refreshing to have a peaceful day without any arguing and everyone being of the same mind to come together as a family in a loving spirit. How do we keep everyone in neutral territory and still smiling?
Ambassador for Thanksgiving
Dear Ambassador,
Before the holiday, inform everyone that it is “White Flag” day, and that they should leave any grudges or negative feelings at their door, not to be brought with them. Tell everyone invited that it is a day to build happy memories and to express love. Before the dinner prayer, have everyone express what they are thankful for. If an altercation begins to raise its ugly head, politely intervene and ask them to go to separate corners of the property to cool off. No family holiday is ever smooth, don’t expect perfection. There is no choreography for the best holiday. Tell everyone to relax, eat, drink, and be merry!
Sal
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